52,340 people

in romantic relationships took Aella's Your Relationships survey between December 2022 and September 2026, each answering about their main partner.

This explorer lets you cross-tabulate 117 variables : who people are and who they're with, how long they've been together, how often they fight and have sex, cheating, jealousy, and dozens of statements about the relationship.

Seven scores sum up each relationship, the same ones takers saw at the end of the survey: Toxicity, Sexual satisfaction, Interdependency, Insecurity, Friendship, Flourishing and Openness.